Is there such thing as "Perfection" when it comes to Guys??

So I was recently asked by someone, "What kind of guys do you like??" and its a question that I get asked all the time and the rehearsed answer is, "Guys that are actually doing something with their lives!!" But to be honest I have never really thought of what my "Perfect" type of guy would be like. Today though, as I sat bored around my house because my car is sick and none of my pistols will come get me (lol), I really thought about what the "Perfect" guy would be that knocked me off my feet and would really make me change.

So here goes:
My perfect guy would ideally be brown skin, he would be taller than me, which isnt hard because I am shorter than everyone. He would be focused on life and determined to get the things that he wanted out of it. He would be able to help me stay focused on who I was and because I would constantly take care of the things he needed he would always make sure that I had the things that I needed. He would be slightly jealous and a little over protective, but not to a level of craziness. He would demand respect, but never fell short of giving me the utmost respect. He would be sarcastic and have the same odd sense of humor that I have, he'd be playful. He would have a smile that made my heart melt and eyes that I would love to stare into all the time. He would need me and ask me to do things for him that he could do himself, just because he knows that I like to feel needed. He would never forget a holiday even if for whatever reason we were far apart, he'd find some way to do something special. He would be strong but always gentle when dealing with me and my feelings. He would respect me and listen to my opinion. He would be fascinated by me and really want to learn who I was and what I thought about. He would be sweet and then the very next day be an asshole. We would argue because he wouldnt hesitate to tell me if something I was doing was wrong or just not the best idea. He would be my friend and my protector and I would be his rock and his caregiver and together we would provide for each other......


Think this is all a fairytale that I made up?? Unfortunately its not. I met this perfect man in passing and with everything in me I wanted to tell him that he is everything I dream of; but of course me being the tainted, victimized girl I am I ignored all his "perfect" qualities and sent him away.

Too bad for me, because now I will forever search for his one of a kind perfection!