The Way I See It

1. So, it's okay for her to TALK about gettin it in, but it's not okay to ACTUALLY get it in.
2. It's okay for HIM to smash the homegirls, but it's not okay for HER to smash the homies.
3. It's okay for HIM to post pictures with no shirt and showing his V-cut, but SHE can't post a picture in her bra.
4. It's okay for HER to post practically nude pictures, begging for attention, and getting no action because she's automatically labeled as "easy", but SHE who keeps shit to herself, dresses appropriately, and just wants to smash because she has needs just like guys isn't okay.

Why have these things become such a big deal??
Sex is a beautiful thing and in my eyes, it's OK if you have a lot of it. Shit, it's natural.
If SHE wanted to just smash, so be it. Be thankful you got it in and don't have to worry about a clingy bitch trying to become wifey material now that you guys got it in. At least she admitted she just wanted to smash. You're the dude, remember?? Let's try not to be so heartbroken over it.

And whyyyy do boys continue to pick at these girls/hoes/sluts/whatever you want to call them, KNOWING it's the bitch you AND your homeboy have already smashed in the past. And the worst part about it, you both knew. Don't be mad at the girl, be mad at eachother!
Guy #1 sucked. So she moved on to Guy #2. She wasn't trying to be your friend anyway. She could honestly care less.
But let's switch this up and say the dude smashed girl #1, dropped her ass, and moved on to girl #2. AYEEE...you're guna go dap up your homie up and feel accomplished, right? SMFH.

And girls, be real. Don't say you just want to smash, then get your feelings hurt when the guy wants to have nothing to do with you anymore. You should have kept your panties on and legs closed for all of that.

Seems like everything I blog about, goes back to the "Why I Should Have Just Been Born a Dude" post. I don't know, maybe I'm the only one who feels this way?? I'm glad I don't give a shit though and could care less what you say and think.

But even if you did talk your shit or try to judge me, I'd just prove you wrong. I probably have more self respect than you ever will. It's something I have gained in the past few years though. I will admit, at some points in my life, I did lose my self respect. I have my reasons why I thought my life was at end and why I felt completely worthless. I just choose not to put my shit on blast.

And GIRLS...PLEASE
Stop walking around pretending to be gay. That shit did not happen over night. Nicki Minaj should NOT be your role model.
Stop aborting your babies and telling everybody why your depressed. Did you do it for attention?? Did you purposely not practice safe sex??
Stop sending nude pic messages.
Stop going to the club, dancing on bars, knowing people can see up ur dress/skirt.
Stop getting in relationships and letting your boyfriend or baby daddy treat you any kind of way..then be ready to fight a bitch over him. Let that bitch have his ass so he can treat her just as bad.
Stop getting drunk and "blaming it on the alcohol". (you know what I'm talking about)
Stop taking "shawty you got a phat ass" as a compliment.
Stop showing your goodies on tinychat.

I don't mean to be a bitch. This is why I have few girl friends. This is why I thinks boys are fake and don't take them seriously. We all view things differently....
and This is the way I see it.